The strangest thing happened to me this afternoon. It was about 3 pm and I was in the middle of doing some small jobs and sitting on the second to bottom stair (as I like to do when I am distracted by my phone) and thinking it would soon be time to set off and collect the children from school, when I heard a baby cry. My first instinct was to glance upstairs, thinking (as I did so many times in the past) that someone had woken from their nap in a grump and that I needed to get them up anyway as it was mid-afternoon. Of course the noise came through an open window from the street outside but, for a split second, I was back in the era of nap times and it was so vivid! I've been thinking that this pre-work week has felt a lot like being on maternity leave. The list making, the mild anxiety over silly little things because it's easier to worry about them than the big ones (WORK! AGH!), the feeling of a looming date, of impending change, the need to get things done because there will never be time to do anything Ever Again. It will come as no surprise that, happy as I am to be returning to work, I'm sad to be ending my time as a stay at home mum. It also closes the door gently but firmly on the prospect of baby number three which, if I'm honest, was never really a realistic option but always a little dream of mine.
Anyway, moving on, before I well up. I want to thank you so much for all your kind words and support for my new job. For those who asked, I'll be working in the admin department of a local primary school and when I saw the advert I thought I'd be mad not to apply. It's Monday to Friday during school hours and term time only so absolutely perfect for childcare, but does mean that my days will be very full and very different, and there'll be less time for pottering and coffees. Because, you know, that's all I've been doing for the last eight years.
Anyway, on to my first Make, Bake, Sew, Grow post!
{ Make }
Making our tiny wardrobe more effiecient and organised.
Exasperated by trying to untangle necklaces when in a rush in the morning, I spent a very pleasant hour banging picture hooks into the inside door of our wardrobe so that I had somewhere to hang them.
My friend Abigail said "It's like seeing the essence of you, all neatly laid out".
{ Bake }
A chocolate coca cola cake* for John's birthday on Monday.
This is one of his favourite cakes and he often requests it on his birthday, or any day for that matter. It's incredibly easy and you can't really taste the cola, it just makes it quite moist and caramely. It's amazing when it's still a little warm and gooey.
{ Sew }
I am ready to start my Midsummer Springs Sampler. I spent at least two very gentle, soothing hours last Sunday afternoon slowly sorting the threads onto labelled card so that I'm ready to start sewing.
There are so many colours. And you only use a tiny amount of each of them, so there will be loads left over which is a bit annoying. I just need to pluck up the courage to start that first tiny stitch now. I'm worried I might have forgotten how to cross stitch.
{ Grow }
We have two large, beautiful rhododendron bushes in our back garden. They face each other on opposite sides of the garden; one on the right by the decking...
and one on the left by the shed.
They are currently covered in big, blowsy, lilac coloured blooms.
They took a real battering in that wind and rain we had at the start of the week and I gathered up handfuls of sad looking flowers which were scattered all over the grass.
I hope you all have a wonderful weekend. Ours will be quiet, which is good.
* The recipe is from Nigella's How To Be A Domestic Goddess which is one of the first cookery books I ever bought myself and probably one of my favourite and most used, too. I don't think the recipe is available online exactly, but if you google "Nigella Chocolate Coca Cola Cake" I'm sure you'll find it if you want to.
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One last thing: the BBC are looking for people to participate in the new series of BBC One's Home Away From Home. Any kind of TV where you get to nose around real people's houses is interesting to me. Details below.
HAVE YOU EVER FANCIED A HOME SWAP HOLIDAY?
BBC One's Home Away from Home is back!
And we're looking for people who want to try out a
home swap holiday in the UK.
Do you live in a home you'd be happy to swap with
someone elsewhere in the UK for a short break?
Would you like the chance to have a new experience and
discover local cuisine, sight-seeing that goes beyond the guide book, and an
authentic place to stay?
With Home Away from Home you could be enjoying a
unique holiday experience in a stunning part of the UK...
For an application form or an initial chat, please get in touch right
away!
Email:
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Phone:
0208 008 1468
Happy Birthday John! I hope that you have a great weekend and enjoy the return to work! Sounds as though it will be a good fit with the rest of your life. xx
ReplyDeleteSo, let's plan our own home swap holiday, no BBC needed! Ha, wouldn't that be fun? I can feel your emotions in this post and I just wanted to say that everything will be really good. It won't be the same but it will be a new chapter and you'll be great. I know all too well that feeling of the door closing on a baby (different reasons for me, but the feeling is familiar) and I just hope you know what an incredible mother you are. Have fun with Midsummer Sprigs; it was challenging. I recommend a white cloth on your lap while you work, with light coming in behind you. These things made all the difference for me.
ReplyDeleteBut if I was going to stay in your house I'd want you to be there too! xx
DeleteI had those sort of emotions late last summer when I started my new job and to be honest I have just about got to grips with the transition. I have written about it in my latest post with a craft connection. You will be fine, you will work out what is important and when to let 'Sh** slide. I don't sweat the small stuff anymore and am mindful of snatching an hour here and there to myself. When I used to cross stitch I used a hole punch to make holes in the card and I folded the threads in half and pulled them through the loop so that they didn't fall off. Good Luck with your job and the cross stitch they will both, eventually be fabulous. Jo x
ReplyDeleteAdmin Officer jobs in schools are very highly sought after, mostly by mums with kids in school as it is the perfect job. Well done for getting it! I know you will enjoy it, it's a very satisfying and varied job with no 2 days the same, plus the bonus of working with kids.
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the school job. I found the 9 months I was working in a school office was incredibly busy. You think you'll never remember who all the children are and yet by the time you've been there a couple of weeks faces get so familiar. I'm sure you'll love it.
ReplyDeleteLisa x
You will love your new job and still find time to do all the fun things you want to do. There may just be less time for phone fiddling! I've just used up lots of embroidery thread by hand quilting a log cabin quilt. I used different colours throughout and it looks just right for a scrappy quilt. I would love to do the Midsummer Sprigs embroidery but I just don't think my eyes are up to it now so I'll look forward to watching your progress. Have a lovely weekend Gillian and wishing you well for Monday.
ReplyDeleteHi Gillian. The house swap sounds interesting. Don't know if I'm brave enough. And I wish you were working in our school office! Have a lovely weekend and good luck next week xo
ReplyDeleteJobs like that are like gold dust, well done for bagging one. The cake looks delicious, I have that book on my shelf (just made Maids of Honour yesterday in fact) so I shall look up the recipe. Have a good weekend. CJ xx
ReplyDeleteI will look for the recipe, it looks very luscious. I do make a chocolate cake that includes a cup of hot coffee, from The Barefoot Contessa, it is really lovely, sticky and moist and far too moreish.
ReplyDeleteGood luck and I hope you have a great weekend. I'm sure it will all be fine.
ReplyDeleteI love how you've organised your necklaces. I shall have to remember that when I move.
The cake sounds great. Tomorrows baking sorted! :) x
Good luck in your new job, I have worked in an Admin Office in a school for 28 years and it is great fun, busy but no two days the same. I can well remember the feeling of becoming a working Mum again and actually started at school the same day as my youngest son started. xx
ReplyDeleteAll the best for your start at work and the changes it will mean! It does sound like the ideal job. And who says there will never be a third child, if you both still want it?
ReplyDeleteWhat a beautiful post, the photo at the top is perfect! Good luck with the return to work, life will be different but life is a series of changes.
ReplyDeleteHi Gillian, it's been lovely to read about your move, it really feels as though every thing is just slotting together. The new job sounds good and a sign of how settled you feel I think. It really is a lovely house! The new series sounds like a good way forwards with all that's happening. Look forward to reading more. Also love your new picture. X
ReplyDeleteI remember returning to work after being a stay at home mum for 5 years, it was exciting, and things quickly settled down into a new sort of hectic lifestyle. But I did find it quite a wrench, and probably still do in a way, even though I have been back in the workplace for 15 years.
ReplyDeleteLoved all your photos, will definitely need to get my self a copy of that recipe book, I think it is the only Nigella book I don't own!!
Hope all goes well with your new career, working in school is tiring but a lot of fun (can heartily recommend it!)
Helenxx
Hi Gillian ! Quite some big changes in your life in a short period of time... New house, new work...
ReplyDeleteI think we all here keep our fingers crossed for you that everything works out smoothly !!
Ps never heard of a cake with coca cola !! I am more than interested since I like chocolate as well as cola !
Good luck with the new job, it does sound perfect from a school holiday point of view,and the 'office ladies' as my boys used to call them in Primary School, are such an important part of school life, both for children and parents, you will be perfect for the job I am sure! There are lots of bloggers out here all keeping out fingers crossed for you! X
ReplyDeleteA pretty array of necklaces and a great way to display them and as you say they remain tangle free.
ReplyDeleteYour job sounds perfect, I wish you luck with it. Your cake looks yummy!
The very best of luck at your new job! I hope the new chapter will be an exciting one for you!x
ReplyDeleteCongratulations on your new job Gillian, it sounds absolutely perfect! I'll be working again soon after 10 years of child wrangling so I kinda know how you feel, it's weird isn't it? I'm looking on in envy at your neat wardrobe with your beautifully folded tops and display of necklaces, what a great idea!!! Enjoy the rest of the weekend x
ReplyDeleteYou will find your new normal very soon. Of course starting a new job, even a spectacular one will be tiring but soon you will find your groove and you may be surprised at how you can still do things you like to do. And never say never when it comes to baby number three. Look at me with Little Buddy!!!! He came years after I thought I was done, although he came by adoption he is still here and very much part of our family. Best of luck as your start your new, fantastic job.
ReplyDeleteMeredith
Good luck in your new job, I'm sure you'll love it! I've worked term time only as a teaching assistant for many years and, although my children are now grown up, I still appreciate those holidays! Also schools tend to be very understanding if you have the occasional emergency like a poorly child. Oh, and Christmas in school is lovely!!
ReplyDeleteGood luck with your new job. And yes how perfect to have school holidays off. xx
ReplyDeletethe new job sounds ideal, but I can appreciate it must be daunting at the moment. love the style of the new post, and the necklace display! I have been gathering up flower heads from our azalea, which took a similar battering.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday John!
ReplyDeleteNew job will be fun and exciting; like you say, you'd be a fool not to!
Love the necklace organisation. You'll love it in the morning when you want to get dressed. I have mine on a picture board I made, it's just so useful to have them all set out!
I hope the job goes well,you will be great, so lovely for you to have a job that will still give you that precious tie with your children. I too have that little longing for number three tucked away, I think that I have given it up but then it pops it head up again from time to time. Your necklace organizing is brilliant. Have a lovely weekend.
ReplyDeleteWell done on the job, it sounds great. And just the kind of thing I'll be looking for too (soon, very soon)...
ReplyDeleteI love your camera necklace.
And 'Domestic Goddess' is my go-to baking book. Everything just seems to work, doesn't it?
S x
A chocolate coca cola cake? Recipes please :D
ReplyDelete~ Kasia from Poland :)
All the best in your new job, Gillian! xx
ReplyDeleteTwo things which spring to mind reading your post (apart from the wonderful neatness of the array of necklaces): first, when our two boys were young I took a job in a Teachers' Centre (I don't think they have these now, they were run by the local education authorities and mounted courses for teachers, part of INSET - in-service education and training - and I was secretary to the warden, the chap who ran the place, and I also worked only term time, but mornings Mon-Thurs). It was an ideal job for someone with children, and I was there fore 16 years until I gave up the day job entirely.
ReplyDeleteSecond, we used to do house swaps in the 1980s via the National Women's Register (I wonder if any of your readers now about the NWR?) and they worked very well - we did five in all in different parts of the country and really enjoyed them. Of course, it meant a good spring clean of the house before we swapped, but that was a good thing - it made us examine our things and say to ourselves, "do we need a new washint up bowl? Should be buy new pillows? Is the carving knife sharp enough?" and therefore we put some elements of our home to rights once a year.
Best of luck with the new job!
Margaret P
Oh Gillian you must be all a tither with the change! It sounds like a great opportunity for you which has come at an ideal time. You'll be great! And I know you will make time for your lovely family and all the things you love to do! Loved this post, Bee xx
ReplyDeleteI wish you the best with your new job! And it really sounds just perfect as you will have the same schedule as the children. I've often thought about going back to work part-time when Charlotte starts kindergarten in the fall. It would be really nice to have the extra income! House swapping has always fasinated me. I would totally give it a try! Your garden is looking just gorgeous. Enjoy the weekend!
ReplyDeleteGood luck with the new job - give it a few weeks and it will feel as if you've always been there. Your garden is looking lovely and I'm just off to dig out Nigella's book! Have a great week. xx
ReplyDeleteGod bless you this week with a smooth transition! One step at a time, one day at a a time ☺️.
ReplyDeleteSounds like a perfect job! Loads of luck! Pati x
ReplyDeleteI really like your new series - it's such a good way to think about things. Great idea for your necklaces too. I really hope your first day in the new job goes well. I'm sure you'll really enjoy it. And you can always make time for the things you enjoy doing - it just takes a bit of jiggery pokery :) xx
ReplyDeleteJust reading here today about your new job adventure. I returned to work full time when my youngest started his second year of full day school. It was so hard! I loved being a stay at home mom. However, I have grown so much--and I think my kids actually benefitted from me not being able to fret and follow too much. Best of luck! New house, new job--it's a lot. Take some time to breathe!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to John - it was my birthday last week too though no-one baked me a lovely chocolate cake. I can just imagine all the worrying and preparing you are doing for starting work (which must be today). I'm sure you will love your new job. Starting work again doesn't mean that baby number 3 is totally out of the question - there's always maternity leave! I like what you've done with your necklaces. I did the same for some of mine though I also keep some in their original boxes in a drawer.
ReplyDeleteWhat a great idea to store your necklaces! I really need to make something like that myself. I hardly ever wear my nice necklaces because they are entangled in a big box and I'm too lazy in the morning to pull them apart...
ReplyDeleteOh and good luck on your job! :)
Good luck with your new job; it sounds like a perfect way to return to work and still maintain some work/ life balance. I'm sure you'll be a great success. :-)
ReplyDeleteHey Gillian,
ReplyDeleteI felt a little sad at your gentle door closing. But you do have two beautiful children. And they are one of each ;)) I sometimes get a yearning for a little girl. It's very odd, as I have no wish whatsoever to have another child. I would probably be in the news "Oldest Mum in St Ives gives birth to triplets" scenario springs to mind.
Leanne xx
I am most intrigued by coca cola cake... is there a recipe we could be stealing from you? It sounds just the sort of thing my hubs would lap up too. Goodness, I'd forgotten you have a new job to start. Good luck with it all, I guess it will be quite a change, but I hope it's a good one. Well done on nabbing one of the most sort after school office spots too, makes life so much easier when you have little ones of your own.
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The school are lucky to have you, I tried to persuade my daughter to try the Cola cake for her birthday but she insisted on the sour cream one. I always go back to that cookbook. Lucy x
ReplyDeleteHi Gillian, I've been meaning to write for a little while.. It was so nice reading your posts about going back to work, as I find myself in the same position as you: after 9 years at home raising my boys, I am starting a new job at a local school in September!! I'll be a full time (9.30-3) Bilingual Teaching Assistant and although I am quite excited, I find myself more nervous and stressed and apprehensive than excited at the moment!!
ReplyDeleteWill I get on with the teacher? Will I get the children to listen to me better than my children listen to me? How will I balance everything, work, home, the kids? When will I ever have time to myself? I'm feeling slightly panicky about it all!! But I also feel really lucky to have found a job where I can still drop off and pick up the boys most days and spend all the school holidays with them..
Anyway, I'd love to hear how your first week went, and how you're managing to keep sane and keep on top of things, please keep me/us posted!!
Good luck, I'm sure you'll do really well!! xx
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